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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Katie Grace Arrives Early!


The LAST preggo pic with Katie Grace
38 Weeks
 
This picture was taken just a few HOURS before going into labor.  
I claimed I would wear high heels throughout pregnancy, but never would have guessed I'd be rocking 4" stilettos the night I delivered!

Ok, so obviously, we're jumping ahead from the last post.  I will go back and post the rest of the pregnant pictures, but the most important thing is that KATIE IS HERE!!!  
So, let's talk about THAT because it's way more exciting!

Here's the scoop on how it all went down:

The picture above was taken on Tuesday, July 24th.  We had dinner with Clay's parents at Fearing's in the Ritz Carlton and joked with our waiter that I was due to deliver any hour.  We also assured him we'd do our best not to make a scene.  Oh don't worry, I didn't go into labor in the restaurant.  We just had one heck of a last meal before KG's arrival.  

(Thank you, Randy and Cindy for such a delicious meal and for filling our bellies so we'd be ready for the VERY eventful night we didn't know was ahead of us.)

I need to give a bit of back info before going into the events of the evening.  
There were 2 occasions within the 36th & 37th weeks that I had false labor symptoms.  We never went to the hospital with them because they never progressed.  

The most recent was on Sunday, July 22nd.  This one was pretty intense and lasted about 8 hours.  It started while Clay and I were swimming.  We did call our midwife this time and she was prepared to go to the hospital with us if the contractions progressed.  She wasn't surprised because she had already guessed that Katie Grace would come early.  She was hoping we could make it to 39 weeks.  Obviously, the contractions subsided after a while, but I was grateful to have my helpful hubby during those 8 hours.  He helped me to relax and rubbed my back.  We even took a walk to see if we could get things going.  

Now looking back, Clay and I think the 2 false labors were very productive.  
As of 37 weeks, I was already 3 cm dilated and Katie was low in position.  So, we figured that after Sunday, who knows how much further along I was. 

 You should also know that Clay's grandmother guessed on Saturday that we would go into labor on Tuesday.  She has a tendency to be right about these things and so we were all on pins and needles!  I was trying not to put too much hope into it because I was trying to mentally prepare in case I had to wait until 40 weeks to meet our little girl.  I remember thinking at dinner that I hoped Mother was right, but I sure didn't feel like I was about to go into labor!  I was just enjoying the night with Clay and his parents. 

SO, we're back to Tuesday night.  
Clay and I went to sleep with full bellies and lots of plans for the next day.
At 3:00 am, I woke up with immediately intense contractions.  Already they felt different than previous contractions.  Still, after having a couple of false alarms, I decided to wait 1 hour until waking Clay up.  Sure enough, at 4:00 am, I realized it was time.  Clay claims he has been waiting for my "Oh boy" (<Censored version) face to know if it was the real thing.  I guess he saw it when I woke him up because without hesitation, he said "Call Cecily" (our midwife).  

I called her and said I would try to labor at home as long as possible.
Clay immediately started putting our things in the car, making PB&J sandwiches and getting everything ready for us to leave.
The whole time he did this, I was laying in bed just breathing through contractions that were about 5 minutes apart.  I started to really think this was "it" because I could not even conceive of getting up and washing my face or even getting dressed.  This indicated to me that I was not in early labor because they say you are able to get up and do things to distract yourself.  That was what I did on Sunday.  This time -- much different story.  

At 5:00 am, I told Clay... "Ok, we really need to leave now."  I was not sure how much longer it would be before Katie came, but I knew I didn't want to feel any worse for a car ride than I already did.  Clay helped me get dressed into some comfy clothes and we got in the car.  We had joked during pregnancy that I would HATE the speed bumps at our apartments while I was in labor and I was right!  Geeeez!  It was not ideal, but thankfully I was already in "the zone."

So, after we got through the dreaded speed bumps we were on our way... OR so I thought...  As we made our way down the street, I realized Clay was pulling into the turn lane to go towards the gas station.  This immediately made me laugh because at our birthing class, our teacher lectured the men that they should always keep a full tank of gas in the weeks before labor.  She warned that their laboring wives would be less than thrilled if they had to make a pit stop before the hospital.  Well, poor Clay knew the tank was low that night which is why we took his car to meet his parents for dinner.  He had planned to fill it up in the morning.  Of course, we had to take my car because it had the car seat in it!  Oh well!  As soon as I started laughing about pulling into the gas station, Clay just said, "Just go to another place, Baby."  Thankfully, I was already there and he got us back on the road as quickly as possible.

On the way, Clay was so cute.  He just kissed me and told me how excited he was that this was happening.  That filled me with happiness even though I was in pain.
We finally got to the hospital and I got out right at the door while Clay parked the car in the spot right by the door.  I started to walk in and got a contraction in the hallway.  I had to stop and grab the railing on the wall.  Thankfully, Clay got there right then and he braced my other side.  A nurse turned into the hallway and yelled down to labor in delivery: "Hey, there is a woman about to have a baby over here.  Can we get a wheel chair?"
Just hearing her say those words was so bizarre.  I thought, "She thinks I'm going to have this baby any minute.  She's just over-exaggerating."
I was SO glad she did call down the hallway because I did NOT want to walk the rest of the length of the hallway.  We wheeled over to the check-in desk and I vaguely remember attempting to fill out some paperwork.  I was glad that they let Clay finish the rest of the form because I just remember looking down and seeing that my name was barely legible on the paper.  After that, we were taken right back to a delivery room and about 2 minutes later, our midwife arrived.  

Cecily checked to see how far along we were and said "Well, I'm glad you came in because you're about 8 cm dilated!"  I was shocked... and happy!  Clay was the perfect coach.  He just held my hand and told me to breath.  He also was great about having me take breaks when I was wasting too much energy on pushes that I had nothing left for.  

We had planned all along to deliver naturally and I just remember thinking, "Is this really happening?  Am I doing this?  It all was happening so fast, I really had no time to process it all.

About 30 minutes later, Cecily told me I was 9-10 cm dilated and it was time to start pushing.  I pushed for about an hour and a half and at 7:32 am, KATIE ARRIVED!!
7 lbs. 2.4 oz. and 19.25".

I immediately put her on my chest and I think I was in shock.  I also burst some blood vessels in my eyes while pushing, so I couldn't see very well.  I just kept blinking and opening my eyes as wide as I could to try to see her better.  I looked at my proud hubby and I can safely say that was the most magical moment of my life so far. 

 We rested until about noon and spent some mommy and daddy time with our new little daughter.  Then, we opened the flood gates and our wonderful family and friends began to pop in to meet the beautiful Katie Grace.

So here are a few pics from KG's first few days with us at the hospital.
Thank you Abbey for the most precious pics that we will cherish forever! 
Hello world!
 My precious angel
 She was even too tiny for her headbands. :-)
 Auntie M! 
Clay called her at 5 am when we were heading to the hospital.
Monica immediately packed her bags, got a flight and was in Dallas by 2:00 pm.
She stayed for 1 week and SPOILED us.  Not only was it amazing to see her, but she took such great care of us.  She cleaned, cooked, took Zeppelin on walks, held KG when I needed a nap, made sure I always had everything I needed and gave KG all the loves she needed from her Auntie M!  I will always be thankful for how she cared for us.
 The fam! 
We were sad that Dad couldn't be here!  He was out of town and had left the morning before she was born!  What are the chances?!!
 Phil taking a peek!
 My little family (Minus Zeppelin)
bliss.

Family blessing for KG
 Auntie Abbey!
 CeCe!


 Seester!


 Uncle Matt!
Precious
 Love this one
 Proud daddy

I am so thankful all went smoothly for Katie Grace and me.  
We are both healthy and happy and we feel so blessed.  

Thank you all for your love and support through this journey!
Many, many more pics and stories to come!

Love,
Diana











Sunday, July 15, 2012

31-34 Weeks! Father's Day, Preggo Photo Sesh & Other Shenanigans

31 Weeks
Tell me again why being pregnant in the summer is supposed to be a bad thing?...
I know this summer has been really unusually nice, especially compared to last year!  
Still, even when it's really hot, I don't feel like I'm EXTRA hot just because I'm pregnant.  It pretty much feels just as hot as it would anyway. 

Ok, so even though I'm not extra hot... it's still pretty toasty outside!  So, I am extremely grateful I can swim at Clay's parent's pool to cool off, relax, catch some rays (While wearing SPF!) and help my circulation.  
Swimming to help circulation and minimize swelling is a great tip from my midwife that makes a whole lot of sense.  
This is jumping ahead to more recently, but after the weekend my Cali girlies came in town for our baby shower a few weeks ago, I gained 6 pounds of water weight!  I called my midwife a little worried because I literally gained that weight just over the weekend.  Granted, I was so excited about all the fun of the weekend that I didn't go to bed before 2 am each night and I was not resting really at all during the day.
(Note to self: Don't slack on taking care of said self.  You're PREGNANT.  Your body and Katie Grace will both be upset.)
Anyway, she assured me it was just water weight and that it was nothing to be alarmed about.  The first thing she suggested was swimming!  
To which I replied..."Umm let me me think... DONE!"
Sure enough, over the next 3 days, all 6 pounds disappeared.  Phew!!   
 So, my fellow preggo lady friends... Get in the water!  
Doctor's orders!

HAPPY FIRST FATHER-TO-BE DAY, CLAY!!
33 Weeks
 My sweet hubby and his girls. :-)
 Clay is going to be the most amazing father.  He is such a good man and everyone who knows him understands that his family and friends are his #1 priority.  
Katie Grace is going to have such a strong, wise, gentle and loving father.  
She is one blessed little girl.  
I can't wait to witness how much love he will give our little girl.
  I love you Clay!

34 Weeks
Baby Belly Chronicles by Auntie Abbey!
 The very generous gifts from our first baby shower! 

 Not too shabby of a photo sesh when you get to be so comfy!
Plus, Abbey is so great and she makes it so fun!



 Our little girl is getting so big!




Snuggling with Katie Grace's big brother! 
My little tiny











Monday, July 2, 2012

30 Week Baby Shower!

30 Week Milestone!!
What was on my mind at 30 weeks?
"Only 10 weeks left?!... uhh... WOW!!"

How do we celebrate the big 30?
Baby Shower, Baby!!!
 Hostess gifts!  
My first attempt at making kitchen towels. :-)
 The most incredible peonies I've ever seen!  
I've never seen them that big before!
 Beautiful spread!
Also love the flowers!  
Thank you Cindy and Abbey for going to the flower market and arranging these gorgeous, vintage looking flowers. :-)
 Libby's handsome little boy, Jonah!
 Delicious and amazingly decorated sugar cookies by Susan!
I NEED to learn how to do this.
 Cindy & Kari Jane
 Susan, Melissa & Nina
 Sweet little bows for decoration
Love this pic so much!  Katie is going to LOVE Michele!
 More of the beautiful flower arrangements
 The Ralston girls & me!
So grateful to be part of their family!
 Mom and I reenacting the way I used to stick my belly out as a toddler and try to push people over with it.  I bet I'd do a lot more damage these days!
 Opening KG's gifts!
 My cousin Brittany made this dress, along with another one and an adorable onesie!  
Can't believe her!  They are so cute!
 Big bag of goodies for KG from her CeCe!
 Every gift was so special.  Loved how Cindy wrapped each one with a special note.
The one that went with the blanket she made for Katie made me cry... not that it's that hard to do these days. ;-)
 Most priceless mother and daughter photo.  Just love how Mother is looking at Cindy here. :-)
 Gifts!  
This is the exquisite blanket CeCe made for her Katie Grace!
Great generations pic. :-)
Beautiful and gracious hostesses!  Thank you all SO, SO much!
My beautiful sisters-in-love!

What an amazing afternoon.  I am so grateful to all the wonderful hostesses that worked tirelessly to create such a beautiful shower that I will always remember!  

I was just in awe of all the love in that house.  
Katie Grace is going to be one very loved little girl.

Thank you to everyone for all the beautiful gifts!  
I couldn't believe how many personalized, homemade pieces there were.
On top of that, there was the most amazing food!  Homemade cake balls by one of my best girlfriends Emily, homemade sugar cookies decorated with onesies and little baby faces by Susan, homemade muffins by my mom and Cindy, a special chocolate sauce for the fruit that Frances had to track down that she and her hubby found at a little place in Oregon... 
the list goes on! 
So special!

I was so excited for the shower that I only slept about 3 hours the night before!  
Part of that was because I was up late sewing hostess gifts, but then I woke up at about 6 AM feeling giddy and totally ready to start the day!  

Thankfully, the shower was during the time I still had my burst of energy, so I had a blast and felt great.  
I was so happy to go home and take a nap after the shower.  
Thankfully, my sweet hubby brought all the gifts up to our apartment in the hot, hot weather while I got comfy.  After a little rest, we went to the movies.  
What a great day!